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Tue, 11 Jun 2013 02:30:14 -0400

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Sun, 09 Jun 2013 14:13:05 -0400

Can I please just go back in time and tell myself not to go to UW? I wish I wasn't so ignorant and proud, and I genuinely wish that UW had rejected me. I'm sorry I didn't listen to others before and I really wish I had. It's clear to me now just how stupid I've been; how stupid I am.

Thu, 06 Jun 2013 20:48:00 -0400

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Thu, 06 Jun 2013 05:36:21 -0400

disney-yensid: disneyismyescape: forever-never-neverland: The...

Tue, 28 May 2013 22:27:21 -0400

disney-yensid:

disneyismyescape:

forever-never-neverland:

The cutest photoset ever to exist ever

i second that emotion

Ohmigosh xD so cute bah!

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Mon, 20 May 2013 22:21:28 -0400

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Sun, 19 May 2013 13:01:45 -0400

discovers: queued

Wed, 15 May 2013 12:26:47 -0400

discovers:

queued

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Fri, 10 May 2013 03:35:37 -0400

"Here’s the thing. Men in our culture have been socialized to believe that their opinions on women’s..."

Mon, 06 May 2013 16:56:31 -0400

“Here’s the thing. Men in our culture have been socialized to believe that their opinions on women’s appearance matter a lot. Not all men buy into this, of course, but many do. Some seem incapable of entertaining the notion that not everything women do with their appearance is for men to look at. This is why men’s response to women discussing stifling beauty norms is so often something like “But I actually like small boobs!” and “But I actually like my women on the heavier side, if you know what I mean!” They don’t realize that their individual opinion on women’s appearance doesn’t matter in this context, and that while it might be reassuring for some women to know that there are indeed men who find them fuckable, that’s not the point of the discussion.

Women, too, have been socialized to believe that the ultimate arbiters of their appearance are men, that anything they do with their appearance is or should be “for men.” That’s why women’s magazines trip over themselves to offer up advice on “what he wants to see you wearing” and “what men think of these current fashion trends” and “wow him with these new hairstyles.” While women can and do judge each other’s appearance harshly, many of us grew up being told by mothers, sisters, and female strangers that we’ll never “get a man” or “keep a man” unless we do X or lose some fat from Y, unless we moisturize//trim/shave/push up/hide/show/”flatter”/paint/dye/exfoliate/pierce/surgically alter this or that.

That’s also why when a woman wears revealing clothes, it’s okay, in our society, to assume that she’s “looking for attention” or that she’s a slut and wants to sleep with a bunch of guys. Because why else would a woman wear revealing clothes if not for the benefit of men and to communicate her sexual availability to them, right? It can’t possibly have anything to do with the fact that it’s hot out or it’s more comfortable or she likes how she looks in it or everything else is in the laundry or she wants to get a tan or maybe she likes women and wants attention from them, not from men?

The result of all this is that many men, even kind and well-meaning men, believe, however subconsciously, that women’s bodies are for them. They are for them to look at, for them to pass judgment on, for them to bless with a compliment if they deign to do so. They are not for women to enjoy, take pride in, love, accept, explore, show off, or hide as they please. They are for men and their pleasure.”

- Why You Shouldn’t Tell That Random Girl On The Street That She’s Hot » Brute Reason (via albinwonderland)

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Sun, 05 May 2013 18:14:53 -0400

mulinello: You know what really sucks? When you thought you might have a chance with some guy that...

Sat, 04 May 2013 03:49:36 -0400

mulinello:

You know what really sucks?

When you thought you might have a chance with some guy that you really really liked and thought “wow I think he might actually like me back” and then you realize that this whole time that you were leading yourself on by creating all these little fantasy’s in your head only to be crushed when they don’t happen. Then you realize that in reality he

doesn’t.

actually.

like.

you.

back.

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Fri, 03 May 2013 04:19:16 -0400

saveusalltellmelifeisbeautiful: death-by-lulz: benskid: Know...

Thu, 02 May 2013 01:52:21 -0400

saveusalltellmelifeisbeautiful:

death-by-lulz:

benskid:

Know where you stand.

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theonyx: dumbscar: HAVE SOME PENGUINS CHASING A BUTTERFLY OK THAT IS THE CUTEST THING EVER

Thu, 02 May 2013 01:40:33 -0400

theonyx:

dumbscar:

HAVE SOME PENGUINS CHASING A BUTTERFLY

OK THAT IS THE CUTEST THING EVER

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Sat, 27 Apr 2013 01:25:14 -0400

“This is a story of boy meets girl. The boy, Tom Hansen of...

Wed, 24 Apr 2013 01:40:21 -0400

“This is a story of boy meets girl. The boy, Tom Hansen of Margate, New Jersey, grew up believing that he’d never truly be happy until the day he met the one. This belief stemmed from early exposure to sad British pop music and a total mis-reading of the movie ‘The Graduate’. The girl, Summer Finn of Shinnecock, Michigan, did not share this belief. Since the disintegration of her parent’s marriage she’d only love two things. The first was her long dark hair. The second was how easily she could cut it off and not feel a thing. Tom meets Summer on January 8th. He knows almost immediately she is who he has been searching for. This is a story of boy meets girl, but you should know upfront, this is not a love story.”

Little Reasons To Smile - Corgi Puppies

Wed, 24 Apr 2013 01:39:48 -0400

Little Reasons To Smile - Corgi Puppies

adoringly: i used to love these books.

Wed, 24 Apr 2013 01:37:58 -0400

adoringly:

i used to love these books.

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